Pro Pinoy MMA Fighter DebutsBy Joseph Pimentel Asianjournal.com
FilAm Mark Muñoz wakes up at 7 am like any family man to start his day. He cooks breakfast for his family. He drives his four kids to school.
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Pro Pinoy MMA Fighter Debuts
Same-sex marriage has just been declared legal in California. Did you have a ceremony?
Yes, we did, and now it's legal. As of an hour or so ago. I just got (on) the phone with him right before I talked to you and he was yelling at me for not picking up the phone too. We've been together for six years; we've been married for two.
Did you get married in Canada?
No, we had a marriage ceremony here in our house. We figured, fuck it, we're not going to wait for the law. There's no law against making a public commitment to your, you know, spouse. So we did it and we registered for gifts. I've been saying that the people in retail are at the forefront in the fight for marriage equality, because we registered at Williams-Sonoma, Crate & Barrel and Macy's and nobody batted an eyelash. On the registration forms at all three of those stores, it now says, not just "bride or groom"; it also says "registrant or co-registrant." I predict that in a couple of years it's going to say "top or pig bottom."
What of those folks who are neither?
Then we will have to come up with different distinctions.
So are you going to remarry?
I don't know. We're kind of on the fence this morning. I'm so ... I don't know what to expect. I've come to expect either thing: I would have been disheartened if the ruling hadn't passed, but I wouldn't have been surprised, because I've seen the political pendulum swing back and forth so many times; I'm thrilled that it has.
My partner and I talked about it. We've been registered as domestic partners, for I don't know how long. We've been together for 29 years in November.
Holy shit. What's your secret?
Short-term memory on my partner's part. I wake him up every morning and introduce myself.
That's good. Kind of like Drew Barrymore in "Fifty First Dates."
I did the Atlantis Cruises all last year; I did about seven of them and I met a lot of couples who have been together 20, 30 years and there just seems to be this kind of genius compatibility and the ability to forgive. The ability to kind of not ... My mom would always say when we were growing up and we were fighting, "Do you want to be right or do you want to be happy?" So I asked my husband the other day, when we were having a spat, "Do you want to be right or do you want to be happy?" And he said, "I want to be right!"
Alfredo "Fred" Bandalan is the first Filipino American to become a Doce Pares Grand Master.
The old man was so predictable. He would walk through his vegetable gardens, the pineapples and the fighting cocks on his way to the barn. In the barn, the young boy, Fred, would surreptitiously watch his grandfather attending to the animals. He would then pick up a stick, sneak up on the old man and poke him on the side. His grandfather would instantly spin to a defensive/offensive stance, do some intricate moves then shout at the laughing boy, "demonyo ka (you devil)!"
Fred’s grandfather, Pedro Blanco, was doing eskrima, a martial art form indigenous to the Philippines that uses sticks or swords as weapons. Though he would proudly do demonstrations during family gatherings, the old man felt that it was too dangerous for his young grandson to learn.
Little did he know that Fred was already picking up on the techniques from watching his grandfather and other Filipinos in Hawaii, young and old, who would often engage in play skirmishes using rolled newspapers as simulated weapons.
Bandalan was born in Lanai, Hawaii in 1936. His father was from Leyte and his mother, like his grandfather, was from Mandaue, Cebu.